If you were to compile a list of the zodiac signs you should avoid dating, Gemini would almost certainly be on it. After all, the zodiac’s endearing twins have a reputation for being flaky, flirty, and deceitful. They’re all about you one day and then it’s as if you don’t exist the next. The truth is that dating can be perplexing regardless of which zodiac sign you are interested in. Fortunately, astrology may provide us with some insight into what someone is thinking. Despite popular belief, Geminis are capable of falling and staying in love. Knowing how long Gemini takes to fall in love will help you better understand this perplexing sign.
Personal space and freedom are particularly important to Gemini. They never want to be too emotionally dependent on someone, according to astrologer Clarisse Monahan. Even when they are in a partnership, Geminis will want to pursue their hobbies and live their separate lives. They must find a partner who shares their approach to relationships, which isn’t always simple.
Geminis are also smart Air signs that want continual stimulation. They move on to the next fresh and intriguing item when something or someone no longer fascinates them. They tend to overthink as a Mercury-ruled sign. Even if they develop feelings for someone, they may try to rationalize those sensations rather than explore them further.
“A mature Gemini knows they’re in love when, after months of dating, they realize they’re still not bored,” astrologer Brad Williams tells Bustle. “This may be an oversimplification, but it goes to the heart and mind of the Gemini. They are aware that the challenges and excitement provided by their partner continue to thrill them. At the same time, the Gemini may take a while to understand they’re in love due to previous experiences of thinking they were in love (too soon) just to have it cease as swiftly as it began.”
Although Geminis enjoy flirting, having fun, and meeting new people, they are very selective about who they entrust their hearts.
If you’re lucky enough to win a Gemini’s heart, there are some things you should keep in mind to keep them interested. Fox, for example, suggests being nurturing but not suffocating. “They’ll let you know when they need help or when they need space,” she says. “Always remember to listen to them, as ignoring their words and needs is a quick way to lose their attention.” Finding fresh ways to make your relationship exciting is also vital for maintaining their attention.
Above all, effective communication is required. Don’t be shy in sharing your thoughts. Geminis enjoy talking things out. They also appreciate hearing your unique thoughts and perspectives.