Libras may be represented by the scales, but when you walk into a room, you sure know how to throw people off balance. After all, Venus is your ruling planet. So you have the same beauty, charm, and grace as the goddess of love herself. You have a natural talent for verbal seduction as an air sign. In the bedroom, you’re very generous and eager to satisfy your partner’s fantasies. Because Libras are all about fairness, you need sexual partners who are equally interested in giving as they are in receiving. That isn’t always the case, as you’ve probably discovered. Fortunately, the three zodiac signs that are most sexually compatible with Libra will not let you down.
“Libra is the lover of the zodiac,” Valerie Mesa, resident astrologer for the Latinx dating app Chispa, tells Bustle. “This air sign is irresistibly charming and head over heels in love. Libras, who are ruled by the goddess Aphrodite, thrive when they are surrounded by beauty. Because they are gifted in the art of seduction, turning them on will be more difficult than you think. The problem isn’t falling in love with Libra; it’s getting Libra to fall in love with you!”
Beauty, culture, poetry, candlelight dinners, mental stimulation, and charming atmospheres are all major turn-ons for Libras. Mesa claims that physical intimacy isn’t one of the most important aspects of a relationship for them. However, if their partner takes the time to romance them and make them look good, Libra will gladly reward them for their efforts. With that in mind, Mesa has identified the three zodiac signs that are most sexually compatible with Libra.
Aries (March 21 – April 19) is a fixed sign.
Aries is ruled by Mars, and Libra is ruled by Venus. Despite being astrological opposites, these two will be extremely attracted to each other. Mesa predicts that Aries will be drawn to Libra’s “Venusian essence.” “Aries enjoys the chase, and Libra enjoys being desired,” she explains. “They’re mirror images of each other, creating a lovely fairytale romance.” Aries will teach Libra the value of compromise, while Libra will teach Aries how to be more fearless and in charge in the bedroom. It’s a good energy balance.
Gemini (from May 21 to June 20)
Two air signs in bed tend to get along well because they understand how to intellectually stimulate each other in a way that results in some extra spicy times in the bedroom. Mesa believes that Libra and Gemini are great bed partners because they feed off each other’s curiosities. They are two of the zodiac’s most charming and flirtatious signs. Their idea of foreplay is a good conversation that leads to flirty back-and-forth exchanges. “Both of these air signs have similar desires, particularly in their social lives,” she says. “They’ll host charming soirees, mingle with various groups of people, and thrive in eclectic environments.” Mind games are entertaining.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
To be honest, these two would not make the best long-term match. Libra is warm, affectionate, and enjoys being in relationships, whereas Aquarius is more aloof and independent. They do, however, make an excellent bedtime couple. “As a fellow air sign, Libra cannot help but be intrigued by Aquarius’ eccentric yet intellectual personality,” Mesa says. “Aquarius, on the other hand, prefers to detach from drama, so Libra’s lighthearted energy is always a treat.” They’ll enjoy each other’s company as long as they keep things light and fun.