Water signs are the zodiac’s emotionally sensitive empaths. That’s part of what makes dating a Pisces such a romantic and meaningful experience. While astrology of love can help us all get on a more cosmic wavelength when it comes to romance, there is more to partnerships than zodiac signs alone. If you were born under the sign of the fish, knowing the most common relationship mistakes Pisces make and how to avoid them will make your love life a lot smoother.

As an astrologer, I am aware that each zodiac sign approaches relationships differently and faces a different set of challenges when it comes to romance. The best course of action when it comes to astrological dating advice for Pisces is to steer clear of the following typical relationship errors.

1. Having Trouble With Boundaries

A Pisces has trouble distinguishing between their sentiments and those of their lover. Although this idea is romantic, it can also indicate a serious lack of emotional self-control, which can lead to unhealthful codependent relationships. To increase the long-term power and happiness levels in relationships, Pisces should practice establishing and upholding limits.

2. Ignorance of Reality

Pisces, the zodiac sign controlled by the enigmatic planet Neptune, are dreamers with vivid imaginations. However, their desire to live in a fantasy can cause them to be unrealistic about love. If a relationship isn’t working or a partner isn’t being honest with them, Pisces should not ignore the clear indicators, even if it’s unpleasant to do so. In the long term, being more realistic can help avert deeper heartache.

3. Lack of Reliability

Pisces are fanciful beings that enjoy being impulsive, following their hearts, and accepting things as they come. Unfortunately, if Pisceans have trouble keeping to schedules or respecting other people’s time, this whimsical approach can occasionally come across as flaky. Even though Pisces are not naturally schedule-oriented, they should make a conscious effort to do so out of respect for their partner and for the health of their relationship.

4. Finding and Losing Love

As the fluid water sign of the zodiac, Pisces frequently changes their thoughts about their constantly changing emotions. Because of this emotional ebb and flow, Pisces occasionally experiences love at first sight, only to have the magic broken just as swiftly. It’s acceptable to be hesitant to commit, but Pisces should be clear about its position to avoid coming out as indecisive.

5. Failing to express feelings in words

Not everyone is as naturally intuitive as a Pisces, but these empathically attuned fish frequently forget this, and they sometimes expect their loves to read their minds. Pisces should attempt to express their sentiments, suspicions, and intuitions verbally rather than presuming that their partners are getting their psychic messages.

6. Excessive Sensitivity

Pisces is one of the zodiac’s extremely emotional water signs, and because of their heightened sensitivity and propensity for taking things personally, their partners may find it difficult to raise any concerns or offer helpful criticism. Pisces should work on improving their communication skills so they can speak up when they feel sensitive and set the record straight before things get out of hand and lead to wounded feelings.

7. Changing Their Personality For A Partner

Pisces are true empaths, therefore they can nearly always detect their partners’ subtle needs and desires. However, transforming into a new version of yourself to please someone else is detrimental to a relationship. If you’re a Pisces, believe that what you’re bringing to the table is more than adequate if you’re with the right person.

8. Allowing Idealism

Pisces is controlled by Jupiter, not Neptune, in conventional astrology, and this influence imbues Pisces with limitless optimism. When taken to an extreme, Pisces’ idealism can make them appear like space cadets who aren’t seeing things. If you’re a Pisces, make sure to give your relationship some reality checks to ensure you’re being a down-to-earth partner.

9. Checking Out When Under Stress

When Pisces feels overwhelmed or pressured by a situation or a relationship, their escapist inclinations frequently lead to them being “checked out” rather than buckling down to get their affairs in order. However, shutting down, sealing off, and leaving things disorderly can lead to major issues in partnerships. Making time to connect with a partner during difficult times is essential.

10. Not Spending Enough Time Alone

Pisces is related to the twelfth house of the zodiac, which is all about solitude and restorative time – which is why it’s critical for Pisces to spend quality time alone, even if they’re in a serious relationship. It’s tempting to get caught up in always hanging out with a significant other, but emotional Pisces need to rest and recharge on their own as well.